The guy was talking about areas, maybe territory. He said that they should come with the group, and the kids said no, they were going home. Then the guy informed them that if they didn’t come, they wouldn’t be under his protection. Something might happen to them.

It’s not like I thought it would be easy. It’s one thing for me to know that, and another to feel it in my gut. I’m praying for guidance as we walk through this. Praying for the loving path to become clear.

Last night we walked a few blocks through our neighborhood to go to the kinda-monthly meeting of the Neighborhood Association. As we approached the street that leads into the neighborhood, we saw a group of young people. I said to Tracy, “Better call the cops.” This, you might have guessed, was a joke. Let me explain.

See, last month at the Blockwatch meeting, we (PineHillians? Pineys? P-Hillz?)… we were told that if we see a group of more than about 4-5 young people, we should call the police. Yes, indeed. We must call the police and report suspicious activity.

As we got close to the kids, and approached them, I noticed a little one in a stroller. (A teen-age-type was pushing.) One of the kids said to us, “Don’t worry. We ain’t goin’ rob you.” Then another said, “Naw, they trick-or-treating!” Which was funny, because I’d said to Tracy just before that the weather & the time of day & the neighborhood reminded me of Halloween as a girl.

Anyway, we smiled & said hello, and kept going. I considered asking if they were all right, because I could sense some agitation. I could also see some people in the distance ahead blocking the sidewalk. Was there conflict? But they didn’t seem to want our involvement. So, on we went.

Uh oh. There’s more.

Half a block later, we ran into the other group we’d seen. This time it was our neighbor, Blockwatch Guy, and a couple of security guards. (I’d have called the police, but there were only three of them. Besides, they said the police were on the way.)

I think because we appeared to him to be Us and not Them, the Blockwatch guy was friendly, and told us all about the problem. The kids were congregating at the corner store, and they needed to go. He was there to make sure they went, and didn’t come back. His demeanor was… well, let’s just say he’s made it known that he carries a weapon, and he’s not afraid to use it. It was not a posture of humility.

It made me wonder. Where are these kids supposed to hang out? There’s no “official” places, “acceptable” places, except inside the homes in the neighborhood. I can think of a zillion reasons a teen might not want to be hanging out inside their house on the first spring-like evening after months of cold and gray. Stale odors, abusive parents, boring parents, no space to move…

Tracy and I started to continue on, talking about the experience. Soon, we realized we did want to go back and see how the kids were doing. But by this time they’d left.

Neighborhood Association isn’t for “neighbors”

Pine Hills is laid out pretty clearly. It’s roughly between a rectangle and a football, bordered by a thoroughfare on the north, a creek (that I love) to the west, and freeways to the east and south. It’s easy to guess where the borders are, but if you did, you’d be wrong. The borders of the official neighborhood are drawn with all sorts of angles, to exclude all those folks in apartments. When I look at those borders, my heart breaks.

According to the census data, there are way more apartments than the 550 houses the neighborhood association includes in its boundaries. Wonder if that’s why we exclude them? We do it, not just by declaring them somehow “not part” of the neighborhood association. But also by taking an Us/Them posture at the corner store, on the playground, on the street…

What would happen if, as a start, we considered the whole neighborhood, invited folks from the apartments to meetings, hung out with the young people we run across on the streets?

Just call me Polly Anna.

So then I got this idea…

Well, actually, I’ve been really at a loss. We left our ministry in Eugene, and have been waiting, watching, walking, looking for where the path leads from here. Winter is a slow time in Columbus, and it makes sense that we’ve spent a bunch of time in quiet waiting. And it makes sense that with the first green shoots of spring (like the ones in our yard, which cheered me greatly!) — with spring, we would find ourselves breaking out, ideas forming in our minds and hearts like buds on the trees outside our window. :)

It’s not that I haven’t had ideas. I’d like to go to the Baptist Church in the neighborhood, and help the folks there figure out how to love the neighborhood. But will they have me? I’d like to get pizza or burritos and share a meal once a week, like we did in Eugene. But where? I’d like to turn my garage into a hang-out. Don’t get me started on why that’s a bad idea.

But last night, I was around real people, and something clearer started to form. (Hang on. I’ll tell you what in a second.) It’s something I’ve had glimmers of before, which is part of why this feels more real. In the past, when the “right” path has shown up, it’s shown up with a life of its own. We’ll see whether this turn out to have that kind of life in it.

ok, here it is

What if, right along side the Blockwatch patrollers, there were Radical Love Project patrollers? What if we wandered the streets and talked to people with love and respect, offered help and kindness, befriended folks and encouraged them? That might be something I could handle. No 501(3)c paperwork, no accounting nightmare, no zoning board. Just two feet on the pavement. I think that’s how God likes me. Walking.

Trusting in the tao (aka the way) to carry us through — sometimes I picture the way as a flowing river — we have uprooted, and replanted ourselves on the urban frontier of Columbus, Ohio.

A new context for radical love

Remember when I said this is not a homeless ministry? I tried to say that it’s about radical relationship, scandalous, risk-taking love, honesty & presence in every moment.

In Eugene, it manifested partly (but not entirely) under a bridge, during meals shared with the folk who live there, under that very bridge, year round. And it spread to hospital rooms, courtrooms, and bars — a beautiful, amazing experience.

It’d be so easy to go across town to the riverbank where I know folks are camped. And I’m tempted. In fact, I’d be lying if I said there weren’t socks and hand-warmers stashed in our car, just in case.

But I don’t want to try to re-create the experience we had in Eugene. I think that deep down, if I go to those places, I’ll be looking for the friends I left behind in Eugene. I miss them so much! Maybe I’m avoiding facing the fact that they aren’t there? But that’s not the main reason we aren’t seeking out the same kind of ministry we had back home.

The main reason is that it’s clear across town, and it’s clear that there’s plenty of room for our radical presence right here in our neighborhood, Pine Hills.

Pine Hills

Pine Hills isn’t known for either pines, or hills. It’s a flat subdivision with old maple and oak trees, and even older houses, a few blocks from where I grew up. In the late 60s and early 70s, families — mostly white, mostly two-parent, mostly moms at home — bought these houses here on the suburban edge of town, and sent their kids off to the neighborhood school.

But cities have changed since then. Where once almost everyone in the neighborhood owned their homes, now lots are rentals. Where manicured lawns and tended gardens once decorated clean sidewalks, now chipped curbs line damaged lawns holding broken-down cars and the occasional empty beer can. Where nuclear families with 2.4 kids once attended each others’ parties, now single parents, multi-generational families, or groups of roommates share a house, keeping mostly to themselves.

But while the neighborhood isn’t as tidy as it was when I was a kid, it’s way more diverse. And while there is struggle visible on the surface of this ‘hood, I’m not sure that’s entirely a bad thing. Appearances are usually deceiving, and I know when I was growing up in the early seventies, there were things going on that were kept hidden. But even if life was more comfortable for some, comfort can be isolating. Difficulty is — or can be — an opportunity for connection.

I admit I don’t mind so much, trading in the shiny, orderly 20th Century world of ticky-tacky boxes for this patched-up ramshackle collection of neighbors.

Neighborhood

In the short time we’ve been here, we’ve met neighbors who are widowed and have lived here for 30 years. We’ve learned of young people who’ve been taken away to jail for drugs, guns, burglary. We’ve met a single mom and her kids while chasing off the two feral dogs who were tearing up a cat in her front yard.

We’ve met the civic association folks and the blockwatch folks (not as much overlap as you’d think). We’ve seen lots of kids, and heard tenuous rumors of Bloods and Crips. (If you see 5-6 kids together, we’re told, call the police and report them as suspicious.)

“A big part of this,” Tracy tells me, “is about not insulating ourselves from our actual world.” It’s about opening our eyes and hearts to what is immediately around us.” These days, I think getting in the car to drive across town for “homeless ministry” wouldn’t do justice to the beautiful task God has given us, to love the people placed right in front of us. To bring everything we’ve got to loving God & to love our neighbors with what’s real inside us.

So here we are. Pine Hills, you won’t know what hit you. :)