Radical Love Project

the message

Are you tired? Worn out? Burned out on religion? Come to me. Get away with me and you’ll recover your life. I’ll show you how to take a real rest.

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if i don’t live it, i can’t write it

Meet our friend, Tennessee. He's a fun, sweet guy in his 50s, far from home. He has an infectious laugh, and greets his friends with a distinctive "yay-ey!" that lets you find him easily, even in a crowd. He loves his freedom, loves to travel, yet he has also been feeling a need to settle down.

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C.S. Lewis on Love

I got this beautiful quote from Jessica Roye's blog. I don't want to comment; it speaks for itself. (The structure is mine. I hope Lewis wouldn't mind.)... "To love at all is to be vulnerable. Love anything, and your heart will certainly be wrung..."

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“what we believe”

If you're looking for something like the Nicene Creed, I'm afraid you'll be disappointed. We don't subscribe to a list of "beliefs" that we think grant us some special status. When we say "believe" we mean that we have an idea...

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changes under the bridge

Things have been very different since we lost our friend James last month. The atmosphere has been dark. Several people who lived near the park have left, and the ones who remain are quieter, and more scattered. Also, the rain is here, and that means we move back to the area that’s covered by the [...]

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A Beautiful Gathering

The memorial service was a beautiful gathering. It was crowded, bigger than anything we’d done in that park before. But we had just enough food to go ’round, beautiful flowers, and lots of connection. Tears flowed, and I had the feeling that folks really got to do the mourning they needed to do. Here’s a [...]

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James David Pelfrey Memorial

Please note the time change We’ll be having a memorial service on Labor Day for James David Pelfrey. His family has provided flowers, music & fried chicken in the hopes that he’ll be remembered the way they’d like to remember him. If you’d like to help remember James (David) please come. If you have the [...]

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insomnia

James Pelfrey was among the first men I got to know in this “park” ministry, and over the past seven months I spent a fair amount of time with him. Yesterday, James died, in the very park where we met. So, now I’m remembering James losing sleep over another man’s death. Last may, a homeless [...]

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we lost a friend yesterday

We lost a friend Tuesday night. James was stabbed in broad daylight in the park where he lives. And if you don’t know Eugene, please understand that this is not something that happens every day here. We don’t have places where people are killed on a regular basis. We are a pretty quiet town, though [...]

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An urgent need: $120

We're facing an expense we can't handle, and asking your help. One of our friends has the opportunity to go into a treatment facility in a different area of the state. He's worked hard for this opportunity, and wants to make it work. Everything is in place except the bus ticket to get him there.

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